Single but has a partner...hummm
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
Alright, I am single but in a lifestyle such as this when you have a partner that you swing with does that mean you can't have a vanilla boyfriend?
I have been trying to keep the two worlds separate at least I think I am, but I am drawn to the men in this world. Some of them seem to be so level headed about sex that it is almost unreal. I mean before I even came into this lifestyle it seemed that when I was dating a man and we had sex things would change with them. Some of them would get possessive over "it", which would start to cause problems. But in the lifestyle the only thing you have to get past is the first eye contact and then if things click...straight to the bed, floor, table where ever the mood strikes. Then there is no awkwardness people just go on to the next person and that is that. If they are interested in you after the clothes have been taken off and the deeds have been done then cool. If not the world doesn't stop turning and there is anothe dick waiting to be riden.
So is it ok to have a boyfriend that is not in the lifestyle and a separate partner for the lifestyle?
